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Our Community

Discover and enjoy fun experiences with creative and active singles who share your interests.

Our Activities

With our extensive selection of activities and events, ranging from rock climbing to film, music and comedy to cooking classes and surf lessons, there’s something for everyone.

Lose the Stress

Whether you are an avid adventurer, busy workaholic or just someone who enjoys the outdoors, by focusing on your interests and passions, you can have a good time on your date, no matter if it results in a romantic match.

How It Works

MERJ is a new online dating community where members interact through local activities, events and deals tailored to their interests.

Creating a date is easy. Just find an activity, select a partner and send an invitation. You can also create Open Invitations by posting them from an activity page.

For a quick run through of the key features of the site, check out our video.